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Ex wife is returning my son's birthday gifts. So a long story short is I can't see my son until I have Don a Dapp course, but the courts allowed for me to send gifts and can talk to my 12 year old son. It was his birthday on 12th January. I sent gifts, card and £110 Sports direct gift vouchers via special delivery. Three it has been refused. I know that my son wants the gifts as his uncle has told me and that he wants to see me. But my ex and her boyfriend who is an illegal immigrant are refusing the gifts. Plus she won't tell me which school goes to, as I would like to know of his progress at his new secondary school. Any ideas guys of how to tackle this unfair situation. By the way my ex made a bunch of false allegations of domestic violence abuse, so I can't see my son.
Hi,
Sorry to hear that. Would suggest to avoid sending gifts for now. At next court hearing you can let them know ex is not accepting gifts. I think best thing to do is keep all gifts at your place, and your kids can enjoy them at your place in future. Also inform court that as you have parental responsibility, you have right to know which school kids are going to and to be kept up to date with their progress/parents evening events.
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