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Hi Chaps,
Here's the following reply I got from the police, saying its not wasting Police time. So my ex can phone 5 - 6 times, make false allegations and it's not wasting Police time, what a joke honestly.
Thank you for contacting Thames Valley Police and for bringing your concerns to the attention of the Professional Standards Department. Feedback is one of the quickest and most efficient ways in which we are able to recognise the areas of our organisation that could require attention. Your concerns have been logged under the above complaint reference number.
In order to address your complaint, the following action has been taken:
I have reviewed the crime reports which have been reported by your ex-partner and the subsequent actions taken by officers. I conclude that the action has been reasonable and proportionate in accordance with what has been reported. Evidence has been reviewed and any decision to arrest you was made due to the nature of the matter reported.
Wasting Police Time is a serious offence which can only be charged following consent of the Director of Public Prosecutions. I am satisfied that if the officers considered this to be a factor they would have identified this within the appropriate investigation logs. Victims of crime are not considered to be wasting police time simply because, as the alleged offending party, you deny the allegations against you.
If you believe you are a victim of crime then please do report this to Thames Valley Police so that this can be investigated. You can do so online via out website https://www.thamesvalley.police.uk/ or via 101.
This concludes the complaint process, should you wish to raise a complaint in the future please do not hesitate to contact Professional Standards or alternatively use the below link which will direct you to the online complaint form.
@nickpuna Complaining was never likely to get you anywhere, it was pointless. You need to work with the police when you are on the receiving end of vexatious allegations not fight against them.
Friend of mine , was once constantly getting his house raided at silly times each time they had a warrant to search , it was his ex every time making up nonsense. In the end he went and got a key cut and he gave it to the police and told them to let themselves in whenever they wanted , see how powerful that is?
@harveybdac hello mate,
The other guys mentioned it and I thought it was a good idea, there is a process they have to go through, no one is fighting the Police but I won't let them walk over me, plus it shows on record of her continuous harassment and false allegations. I will be seeing my doctor about anxiety and depression due to her actions. The whole system is a game, so I'll play the system
Your not the only one my ex has also done this and worse, just advise stop all contact and use a parenting app there are free ones out there, do not go near her home unless its agreed first, I had to wear a body Cam and dash cam put your phone on record any time shes near you.(no joke) send her a message to confirm you will record all contact for your safety first. Keep up the police reports they are all logged even if they just think its [censored] for tat, go to Independent police complaints with any genuine issues. Think ahead,plan everything no one should have to live this way good luck.
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