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dose the now ex bitterness ever end,, with me its over 2 years and in court over 1 year, no seeing baby that is mine this christmas, things gor really bad after the app to court c100,, and then world war 4, meanwhile ex is having a new life, new men interest maybe, ? that hurts so dam deep,,a part ov me still loves her and i dont want to do that after what shes done to me,, i cant shake it,, its horrid , still loving your ex,, with baby and all, i no im not [censored], but ive been made to feel so bad about being a dad,, and to her im not even that, im some scumbag, and im not at all, final court case jan,, and im not looking forward to that as ex has a solicitor and im on my own,, i read storys about this and that, and that mum can and dose turn baby against the real dad,, i dont want this for my child shes only nearly 2 years old, so pure, and its not fair,, her family has all turnd on me aswell, ive no one,, and being xmas is even harder
a1dad2be, everything you are feeling is normal given the circumstances. Reading your post reminds me of everything I felt too. For a while too I was thinking that I still loved the ex, honestly, it's like we're twins.
I'm sorry that her family has turned on you, but what about your own family ? This time is hard, but Xmas will be over soon, and before you know it you're going to be in court. What part of the process are you in ? Are they asking you to write a statement ?
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