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I went along to the mother of my baby.
I tried to be diplomatic ......try to talk sense into her about the drinking habits and that it's an important consideration to be taken seriously as there a baby involved total denial.
She's now playing the game prove that this is your child I asked her if by saying prove it she actually wants me to do this ? The answer was no but prove it.
Then she went to her mother's.. who once told me the concerns about her daughter putting the children's lives in danger because of her drinking. This time round her mother seemed very defensive towards me.
And how the facts she told me are now allegations.. And that. I should stay away and never come back. This woman tried to trap me.It back fired because I did not allow her to trap me but at the same time I am concerned for the children. This woman was very selfish because she stated relationships have failed time and time again. She not willing to change but then as she said " I don't have to as I always have my children" . Well they can't escape. . Her mother's also a drinker and very bigoted. I just had to say enough is enough leave them pigs in the trough
When they have finished with there cake so to speak I m sure after they had all their selfish fun with the baby and when the child grows up and they hand the result over to me to destroy the family I have. daughter's life etc .....some people are selfish . She had the chance of avoiding this pregnancy because there was a way out taking the morning after pill as suggested by me. However she had other plans not to let that chance of conception pass her by no matter what the consequence.
She even told me many times that she would make sure that she would not get pregnant and she never do such a thing to me .
I suspected her mother might drink as well. In which case, you definitely won't get any help from her, and she will almost certainly deny that your ex has a drink problem.
Your right her mother also drinks and had given her 4 cans as a teenager. Now she's alcoholic. Her and her mother abused me verbally and told me to stay away. The mother of my baby tried to trap me but that's what happens in some cases some woman do this knowing that they can. But the consequence is now massive because the child has no father but just a deluded mother who romanced about having a child so she could run around with excitement about how she's going to have a baby then carry on as before drinking putting lives at risk and ruining lives. Because of her selfish for filling prophesy she might not get that chance again .....she could have also prevented r this by doing what was immediately asked taking the morning after pill but she had her own mind and selfish reasons to ignore all advice and cling on to hope of getting pregnant l.
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