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Hello all. Any advice would be much appreciated.
divorced dad with two kids 10 and 6.
they stay over night with me every Friday. And more in school holidays. I buy them all the things they need at my house, of course I do. It’s what you do right.
my csa payments are 330 a month. I earn 35k a year. I can only afford a small two bed house (1000k) a month rent. Can’t afford to drive. Basically just scraping by without going into further detail. If that.
my ex. Is with a new partner and even have a new child together.
the two of them can afford to drive a top of the line Audi each. Live in an affluent area. Mortgage mostly paid. Even looking to move to a bigger house.
I can not maintaine the standard of life my kids have with their mother. It’s just impossible.
what can I do here?
hi,
I recommend you join this support group for paying parents. lot of useful advice: https://www.facebook.com/groups/239699060076601/?ref=share
@bill337 thank you
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