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Sarah, really need some advice. My partner has 2 n half yr old twins. We had them regularly every week and he paid 200 a month. We always brought our own supplys and had them when we could. We have been having recent problems due to behaviours with the twins which has affected our relationship. Daniel has moved out as it was not fair on the kids. We have a one yr old together. He is now on house share so can't have them over night. He still has them regularly but not over night. Yet again it's all money with her she is now demanding more money. Dan's hardly got a pot to [censored] in and doesn't have money or me for Reuben yet lexi can demand more money. How can he pay when he hasn't got it and he won't have the money to look after them when he has them?.. Please help
Hi and welcome
Before we ask Sarah to comment, a bit more information would be helpful. Is Daniel paying through the CSA or is he just paying what his ex is demanding? Likewise, what is the arrangement for him to pay you, and how is this worked out?
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