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Child maintainence

 
(@lukepaul1987)
New Member Registered

Hi

So I have my kid weekly, mixed days which is usually organised on the Sunday of the coming week.

Nothing has gone to court yet.

Because I work shifts. I'm able to have my kid 4 full continuous days and nights and then my ex can have her 4 full days nights.

My ex is being awkward about me having my kid overnight, she says because of school nights or routine etc but truthfully I think she is motivated by child maintenance payments.

So she doesn't want me to have her overnight, or very rarely.

If I contact child maintenance and explain that I offer to have my child 4 full days and nights a week, but she won't let me.....will they back me up or will they just not be  bothered.

If I can get child maintenance to support me as ive offered and its her choice to decline me having my child overnight, then all my issues will be resolved.

Cheers

 

Luke

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Topic starter Posted : 28/12/2022 3:47 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

Hi,

Often CMS will ask for evidence such as a court order, about overnight stays. Without one it can be very difficult dealing with them.

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Posted : 28/12/2022 6:04 pm
(@lukepaul1987)
New Member Registered

@bill337 to be fair I believe this, surely in a fair world that should work both ways that if there is a dispute then they should wait until its gone to court.

 

I'm wanting to try for a consent order but I dont think my ex will agree to 50/50 care even though I can do it with my shifts.

 

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Topic starter Posted : 28/12/2022 6:51 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

@lukepaul1987 this is CMS position:

Q: What if we can’t reach agreement about shared care?

A: If both parents agree in principle that they share the care of a child
or children a paying parent must pay child maintenance for, but cannot
agree on the number of nights, then we may make an assumption of
shared care of one night a week. We call this ‘assumed shared care’.
This means we reduce the amount of child maintenance that must be
paid for that child by 1/7th.
This decision will not change unless both parents reach an agreement on
shared care.

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/672432/how-we-work-out-child-maintenance.pdf

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Posted : 28/12/2022 8:02 pm
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