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Hi Yoda. I'm in Court on 29th November, for statements and Scott schedule, I think, then a 3 day hearing in January.. Caffcas said to me in court last Thursday that they were recommending interim contact for me. They went to speak to my wife. She said no, to everything. Then made 2 more disgusting allegations to the caffcas lady, who then said she was not recommending child contact.. As my Barrister said, she decided to do this as cafcass were recommending interim contact for me.. And why was this not mentioned before... And on it goes..
My wife did this at the second hearing. her solicitor brought them up in court. I interrupted and explained that my wife has filed a statement for a non molestation order, she has had three interviews with CAFCASS, so she has had ample time to mention this. I pointed out all of the lies she has already told and I do not want to hear any more. They actually agreed with me and did not take in to account what she was alleging. At the second hearing I went alone, and i got more than she wanted me to have until the final hearing. I am taking legal rep this time. I explained and showed how she has been lying and I strongly believe they are seeing through her lies now
Devo - glad to hear you've got a barrister. Let them tackle this in the November pre trial hearing.
Hi Yoda. Yes I just hope the courts, my Barrister, her Barrister, someone can see my wife is lying. All this to stop me seeing our children. Surly the judges can see this as her being really malicious and spiteful. I mean how many more allegations, I just need to see my children.. She's now using my PTSD from Army service saying I'm mad... Lol. Bearing in mind she done this to me in 2012. Caught her having an affair then so she made allegations about me back then.. We decided to work on our marriage. Then she had another affair, and has done the same again to me.. And on it goes...
I have paralegal we will find good barrister I will challenge cafcass in court. My English it's not good there was interpreter but cafcass not allow this person to explain cafcass want me to my own English to speak. Her report is not completely what I told her any of my positive talk not in to do report I don't want to loose contact my child I am suffiren every time not eaten my had is full and i am emotionally so bad crying every day i miss my child 9 months now I will tell judge independence psychologist report request if they don't allow I ll go high court than never give up my case never
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