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Hi all. So I was in Court today, 5 hours. Had a meeting with CAFFCAS, and she said she will be recommending contact with my children that I've not seen in 4 months. But!!!, she went to speak to my wife, and told her she was recommending contact with our children, my wife said no, then when CAFFCAS woman said shes telling the judge I can now have contact, my lovely wife made 2 more allegations, again horrendous lies. And we all went in to the judges all 3 of them and all women. Guess what.. Due to new allegations by my lovely wife, no contact in any form. So due to my lovely wife and her being told I've got contact with our children, she goes on to make 2 more allegations... Just to put a spanner in the works.. Now I've no idea when I will see my children.. Oh well.. Back to court in November, then for a 3 day hearing at the end of January.. And on it goes...
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I had cafcass meeting section 7 reports she put no direct and in direct contact ...what I talk to officer nothing she put positive on me I never ever talk bad or never ever say something negative. She not put this report how I was my child and best interest anyone please anyone know what shall I do now. How can I proof cafcass report is wrong. I am suffiren every second I am not seeying my child 9 months I have a final hearing please anyone help I do not want loos contact my child she is my life my blood everything please help
Hi all. So I was in Court today, 5 hours. Had a meeting with CAFFCAS, and she said she will be recommending contact with my children that I've not seen in 4 months. But!!!, she went to speak to my wife, and told her she was recommending contact with our children, my wife said no, then when CAFFCAS woman said shes telling the judge I can now have contact, my lovely wife made 2 more allegations, again horrendous lies. And we all went in to the judges all 3 of them and all women. Guess what.. Due to new allegations by my lovely wife, no contact in any form. So due to my lovely wife and her being told I've got contact with our children, she goes on to make 2 more allegations... Just to put a spanner in the works.. Now I've no idea when I will see my children.. Oh well.. Back to court in November, then for a 3 day hearing at the end of January.. And on it goes...
i take it she was represented by a barrister? did court say they will do section 7 report/fact finding hearing?
Dear All
I had cafcass meeting section 7 reports she put no direct and in direct contact ...what I talk to officer nothing she put positive on me I never ever talk bad or never ever say something negative. She not put this report how I was my child and best interest anyone please anyone know what shall I do now. How can I proof cafcass report is wrong. I am suffiren every second I am not seeying my child 9 months I have a final hearing please anyone help I do not want loos contact my child she is my life my blood everything please help
hi, if your not represented, I strongly recommend that you hire a barrister for your final hearing. go on the direct access portal and search for one https://www.directaccessportal.co.uk/search/1/barrister
at final hearing, challenge everything in the cafcass report that you disagree with. do not argue with cafcass before the hearing.
Devo - the 3 day hearing, I assume this is a fact finding hearing? Is the November one a pre trial hearing?
Unfortunately, if a party makes an allegation, the court has a duty to investigate. For as many false allegations that are made, there are plenty that are very true, On the plus side, it's your opportunity to disprove them and then they can't be raised again. It is for her to prove to the court that they more than likely happened & if can be allowed to provide verbal and written evidence to the contrary.
Maybe try to pop along to a Families Need Fathers meeting in your area to get some help.
Anywayse - you need to challenge the report in the final hearing. Try to get some help for this hearing if you can. Either from Families Need Fathers, a lawyer or McKenzie Friend.
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