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I agree with mojo. No system will ever be perfect, but the courts generally get it right more than they get it wrong, and the judges are very professional and concerned with the upholding of the law and the safety of the children. Of course there will always be losers in court. In an ideal world, the parents would be reasonable and we'd never need to resort to court at all - but it's not, and that's where the problem lies.
I must be the case they never heard right then!
Sorry to say that when Children are being abused by the mother, and the Father is deemed as high risk after the mother has said he isn't, you say they are right?
When they refuse to see my evidence against her but hear the lies she tells without any evidence, they are right?
No wonder this country is so messed up and so will the children of the future.
It is criminal to allow a woman to lie in court especially when they have given her not just the kids, but permission to abuse them further.
I am totally gobsmacked by the decision but what more am I meant to do?
Awwww poor woman, she abused 2 girls, she must be going through tough times.
Didums! don't think you can go independant and F**k off the father and expect to abuse kids and put it down to mental health, deny any wrongdoing, but then in the scott schedule admit partially to what I reported her for and the court, cafcass and the system don't want to know. what a disgrace!
Yes its tough going through the courts and more so since covid as the courts are bogged down with cases so there are long delays between hearings. It all takes so long and is very frustrating. Hang on in there and stay calm no matter what.
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