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Definitely worth getting it straight now.
To be clear have you raised the C1A re abuse against you? If this is something that impacts the children in anyway during passed or present then it will be relevant in the court case C100 and I think best to be open and honest, which will save time.
Have you actually requested it to be removed already?are you currently seeing your children, if not what reason have you been given for this?
@jnny yes asked for removal cause like all us dads panic kicks in and rather than seek advice from the off just throw stuff in the basket hoping it works out..mine was done in haste emotion and she was steps ahead of me cause I got non mol which contested.And no contact since she left on 4/2/21 so all I’m trying to do is clear things up for when I get to child arrangements
@jnny and in relation to abuse to me in c1a like I said I filled it in but way I done it load rubbish and my only interest is in getting contact with the kids so clear the rubbish up whilst my child arrangements are on hold seems best option as taking advice not having things done right will cause delays issues further on with arrangements
I wouldnt worry too much. You are a litigant and half of the time they dont pay attention to c1a at the time. When u get to first hearing you just dont raise any of the issues and start afresh. No mudslinging and getting a good contact order. I seen some mad c1a go in and once in court not a word mentioned about it.
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