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8 months ago my misses got a non molestation order against me. Ever since she got it we've been a couple, together. Last week we had a row she called police. Me nicked for breach. There is a clause which says no contact direct or indirect except to arrange child contact. I was bailed and I've tried to make contact so I can see My boy. Guess what, she's rang them again
Hi There,
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You do have to be careful when you have a non mol order in place what did the police say when you spoke with them?
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8 months ago my misses got a non molestation order against me. Ever since she got it we've been a couple, together. Last week we had a row she called police. Me nicked for breach. There is a clause which says no contact direct or indirect except to arrange child contact. I was bailed and I've tried to make contact so I can see My boy. Guess what, she's rang them again
can anyone give advice I'm handing myself in tomorrow. I'm worried.
You would be best advised not to attempt contact again. If you end up back in court can you prove that you have been together as a couple since the non mol was granted? That might be useful for you in court.
I've been charged with a breach. Pleaded not guilty cause I have reasonable excuse. I have many texts from her on my phone. I also have people who would give statement s stating they've seen us to together. I don't want it to go this way. I rang the police to make sure I could contact her about my son. They said ok. Sort of. Now she says I'm harrasing her all I'm trying to do is see my son. I rang her she put phone down. So I went to see her and just said can we talk about me seeing my son. She said ok but not now. I drive then she I've rang police already. Non mol states I can contact her to arrange seeing my boy
Hi There,
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For now I would stop all contact with her, she is going to contact the police every time you do by the sounds of it and you will end up with a bigger issue than you already have.
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I think you could do with some legal advice from a solicitor, many offer a free 30 min session where you can gain some info it would be worth going and getting some advice.
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