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there is approx 17.500 hours in 2 years, and ive seen my baby about 20?????, hours supervised contact, how the [censored] can you be try,,, to be a dad, i fight i weep cry the emotions will not stop this is so not right, and thoughout all this the mother gets on with her life , like nothings wrong and dont give a [censored] about you being a farther and trying to stop contact, no heart or soul
Hi,
My wife and I separated around a month ago because she is an alcoholic. She has taken our 2 beautiful children with to live at her parents and is renting a house for 6 months as we speak, despite me begging her not to and let the dust settle.
I now have my children the odd night when she decides, and this is coming to an end she tells me, because I sit and weep uncontrollably in front of my children who are 10 & 6 and don't need my nonsense because its upsetting them. I'm so low and emotional that I cant see a way forward and am considering ending my life to stop this overwhelming pain I feel being pushed away from my children and wife who I still love.
Have you been to see your GP? You need help to manage yourself at the moment. What you are feeling is not wrong, and it's going to take a lot of time to adjust. Your children need you, and they are going to need you more as they get older and have to deal more with your ex, but at the moment, you need to concentrate on your own health.
mate i no i still love my ex,, but,, i love my baby more,, im going thro [censored] that i would not wish on anyone,, and tbh with you, i got in the same hole, , my advice is, try to focus on you kids, your ex aint worth it no more, your love will shift to your littel ones,, who need there dad,, end off,,
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