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i had custody 50/50 of my son for 6 years
from 8 to 14 years old
suddenly this all stopped
now 4 years later to this day i have no reason from her and have not seen my son at all
i tried to get my ex to mediation and she refused
then i applied for legal aid and opened a dialogue and she refused to talk
then i got a garnishee order from her
then i became unemployed
Now i am employed ... its four years later my son is 18 and i have received another garnishee order for $23000 dollars
i have tried for 4 years to establish contact with him and now this
i am so infuriated i am stressing to the max every day
not only have i been deprived of my right under God to have time with my son
she has failed as a parent and a respopnsible person in facilitating contact for me with my son
i want to KILL her
i am considering taking her to court in a common law tort claim for causing me Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress
which is exactly what she has done....
i have had no contact with my son for 4 years
can anyone recommend a good lawyer to help advise me on my claim against her?
i am informed the maximum i can claim against her for emotional damage is $447000
i believe many men should consider this option against there incompetant and unrepentant exes who cause us so much pain.
i am aware that this claim cannot be malicious in its intent but my pain is real and after leaving her 10 years ago it is obvious she still intends on trying to destroy my life
PS i signed over my house to her and have been financially decimatted ever since with legal bills and credit card debt including being credit listed since 2008.
life is such a [censored] joy ... not
they dont teach you this [censored] in school
she has completely destroyed my life andf the CSA is being used as a tool of destruction by these bitches and it is time Men fought back
Hi there
I'm sorry to hear you're having such trouble, unfortunately the laws in the US are different to here in the UK and I am unable to give you any advice about your situation.
There are Dads here that know exactly how you are feeling, some women are totally unscrupulous and use the system to their advantage, putting the childrens best interests at the bottom of the pile!
Hopefully your son will re enter your life at some point, at 18 he will be starting to become independent now and also curious about what happened.
Best of luck
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