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Well I am not surprised, But i have received notification that my ex is now appealing the court order. I knew it was never going to be this easy, but she has listed 6 things she is not happy with and is now trying to block the order.
Hopefully, one day, this will all be over and our children can go back to normal.
Have a look at this ...
lol let her waste her time.
She has absolutely no chance of appealing. the fact that shes not happy and has 6 issues says all you need to know. a mum that is preventing contact and hasn't got her own way, maybe on day she actually agreed by consent to things any normal mum that co parented would. she then left court and wasn't happy and now thinks she can appeal.
Is she self represented?
That’s great, thanks. She has ticked a box saying she did not need permission to appeal. So I am hoping it will be ignored. I just know this will lead to trouble once the unsupervised visits start in March. It does say she is not being represented, but I’m sure she will get someone should it lead to an appeal
hi, you should just ignore. you have nothing to do with the appeal, i mean you dont need to attend appeal hearing?
very expensive appeal and very very little chance of been overturned especially by someone that was self representing.
A decision has been made and feels hard done by and bullied ( fav exs word) .everything has been considered and appeal will be dismissed
If she’s just appealing the decision because it’s sour grapes there’s nothing she can do . You just need to be beyond reproach in your conduct so that she doesn’t have anything to try to hang you with . After a year she can apply for a variation so you need to just stick to your end of the order while she stomps her feet .
Let her waste her time and money
Thanks all. I am not sure when I will find out if the appeal was successful or not. to be fair, I would welcome it as she cannot prove her allegations and I can prove er allegations are wrong. I saw the girls on Saturday with no problems at all and we had a great time in a soft play area together.
I mean i am not overly happy with the decison either, I would prefer overnights to start right away, and I feel cafcass let me down a bit too. But I am not going to kick and scream about it, just keep my head down and move on.
She won’t get far appealing just as she doesn’t like the decision. . All you can do now is stick to orders , make sure you and the kids have a good time and work towards showing the authorities the arrangements work , the kids are safe and Hapoy and that there won’t be an issue if they increase contact .
Got the news her appeal was denied today. Their response was quite blunt and strongly worded. I now just have to wait for the back lash as she is going to be very angry she has not got her way so I am preparing myself for some new made up claims.
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