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hi,
that sounds very annoying. one of the reasons why people go to court is because they like the structured arrangement they can get out from it. so if both of you can not agree, then your better off going to court. i already received the "pay for childcare if you cant pick up kids from school" message. 🙂 even though she doesnt work or party or anything lol.
She can't argue with the CMS figures...they are the figures.
One thing to be aware of is if she learns that reducing your contact to less than 52nights per year she can claim full child maintenance from CMS from you!
Get family to help with childcare situation while you're at work...that won't go against you in court...many working parents get help from grandparents or before and after school clubs to help around working hours.
If she likes the partying lifestyle and you can prove it....What about going for sole custody?
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