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Well today i had my second supervised visit and all went well until the ex has now said i have hit one of my children at the last supervised visit! I was gob smacked as i have never once hit my children! The manager spoke to me and first asked was i left un supervised at all during the last visit which i wasn't as i am paying £50 per hour for someone to basically stick up my a##s and take notes until the next court hearing! Next thing she brought out a piece of paper which my eldest daughter had written on saying how much she hates me and alot of other un true things which my poisonous ex has planted in her head or even made her write! Just when i thought things where getting better.
Anyone know what will happen next now this has happened?
Best Regards
I'm surprised the manager asked you if you were left unsupervised - should they be asking the person who was supervising?
What has your ex said - is she saying she will suspend contact?
I had a different supervisor this time as she was on holiday and no she is not saying she will suspend contact
Best Regards
Take it on the chin mate do not react in anyway log everything down as to exactly what happened and save it all for court you're on the road now to restoring decent contact.
It's a long road but just stick in there your ex will be fuming because contact is going well and she will be trying to screw it up when it gets back to court they won't be impressed at your ex in acting this way it won't show her in a good light at all, try not to worry and crack on keep turning up at contact and like I say log it all down for court.
All the best
Slim
Would it help if i inform cafcass? Obviously its gunna get back to them
Best regards
I wouldn't - just sit tight, they may not get informed.
have you read the contact reports?, if not ask for a copy as you have a right to see it .
if it doesnt mention anything negative on the report and its positive then you have nothing to worry about, so just sit tight till next hearing, and do your best at contact sessions
im going through supervised contact aswell get a copy of report from each session emailed to me after its been typed up.
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