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It could be adjourned and its difficult to comment without full knowledge of the case, but you can draft a statement giving the facts and why it shouldn't be adjourned. State what isn't working and what contact you've had against what was ordered. Also correct the Cafcass statement. Keep it factual and don't point blame on anyone.
@champagne adjournment was not allowed, the hearing went ahead and I won the appeal. Barring order has been lifted and a new cao has been granted with a sec 7 to be completed by August with specific requests for Cafcass to deal with. One of them being whether Maternal grandma is an appropriate person to supervise moving forward. This I believe may be due to the fact that by her saying she only wanted to commit to 2 hours. How could there be any progression. It's been 2 hours for over 3 and a half years. I had a mackenzie friend with me and it was as if I was a completely different person. Their solicitor came and shook my hand on seeing me something she hasn't done in 5 years of courts. She also stated she agreed there had been an error with the barring order etc. But it was them who opposed progression and wanted the barring order putting in place.
Well done. Hopefully you will have more contact moving forward. Shows its good not to give up hope
Well Done. Can you get a solicitor to work with you on this. I find if one side as a solicitor they tend to take over. My family have been through all this with accusations being thrown at them, and the constant lies. Some of which are totally unbelievable but they get believed 😳. I’ve had a child arrangement order in place 10 years, I upset my ex by catching her out on a lie and now she’s stopped contact, I won’t see my child now if ever again, until at least September, this is after us seeing each other every week for 10 years. It just should not happen. I feel for you all.
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