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I agree that you should have the man put his money where is mouth is. Just because you can afford to support the little one, doesn't mean that his financial obligations cease to exist. If possible keep the "visitation" separate from the monetary matters. I would also suggest that all the meetings be supervised as hi undefined mental challenges call for a supervised environment. Ask for the money as that is part of being a responsible father on his part and no judge will deny him the opportunity to do what is right for his daughter. From the look of it once the situation becomes heated (money and supervision) he will probably return in the woodwork. If he did not show up till now there is little motives to stick around now. Do you have any updates?
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