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Hiya everyone how are you?
I'm curious to engage with dads (or mums) who's ex has a diagnosable mental health issue which you believe has been the main reason for the downfall of your relationship.
I appreciate that there are loads of people out there who think their ex is mad and has problems, but has their problem been quantified by a professional? If yes I would love to have a chat.
I've got some personal experiences on this topic and I'm keen to understand more by speaking with fellow people who have been or are indeed in the same boat.
cheers
Hi I read your post and and yeah are not alone, I am currently dealing with my ex who is officially diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and anxiety and admit to children's services, cafcass n court that she smokes cannabis n yet our 3yr old son is allowed to be in her care! It's a pretty dark situation to be in but trust me you are not alone! Good luck though pal.
I think you will find plenty of people on here whose relationships have broken down due to their own or their exes mental health. Sadly, with current generations, mental health still goes untreated or undiagnosed for long periods of time and the effects can be catastrophic. Hopefully our future generations will be more aware and have better support.
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