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Hi Fellow Dads,
So i need some advice as i feel i am stuck.
My family (wife and Daughter and myself) are moving to the UK at the end of December,
Things have been really bad between myself and my wife as of late, and i can see she is likely to leave me as soon as we get there and go live with her sister who lives there already.
Any advice on what i do as its hard to not go anymore as i have already accepted a job and bought tickets etc?
Hi There,
All I can suggest is talking things through, before it's too late, I know you have your tickets and a job lined up, but if the move isn't right then it needs to be discussed before you move.
You may find that this is all down to the stresses of moving, but either way you need to talk with your partner.
Where are you moving from
GTTS
to be honest, I think the moving job and country isn't likely to be the reason she leaves, if that is the case - it may make it easier if her sister is there, but I would imagine that this must have been festering for a while and not movign would only postpone her leaving, not prevent it. As above, the best thing you can do is to try to talk it through as to what she wants and if it is to leave, then how to work best together.
It's worth taking a look at this http://dadinfo.splittingup-putkidsfirst.org.uk/home
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