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[Solved] Trial Separation?

 
(@Goonerplum)
Noble Member Registered

After todays news

Have you tried a trial separation? What are your thoughts?

Did it give your relationship helpful breathing space – or was it just delaying the inevitable?

Gooner

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Topic starter Posted : 17/09/2013 2:19 pm
(@dadmod4)
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... at least one will be hoping they get back together. However, sometimes the other is sure it is over, but isn't yet saying

I think that sentence probably is the most accurate description. I've been separated twice, but in both cases, I was very clear that it was what I wanted - the divorce was no rush in the first instance, and we both stayed friends (still are very good friends), but I think if you get to that stage, separation is generally going to confirm what you knew in the first place.

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Posted : 19/09/2013 12:10 am
(@got-the-tshirt)
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Hi,

Yes I agree, when I left my ex, I think there was a feeling that it was short term but I knew from the min I left I wasn't going back, no matter what I said I think there was some hope that I would.

I have never had a trial seperation as I always tried to work through things, until there is no hope left.

GTTS

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Posted : 19/09/2013 10:28 pm
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