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Good morning,
I've been on here a few times, two years ago talking about my divorce and then more recently about my current relationship.
So my problem now is that I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady, she's incredibly good looking, sexy, great in bed, all the good things.... But then she has a few issues...
1.Very aggressive at times
2.Her children (1 boy aged 13, 1 daughter aged 18) are both not very nice. The boy lies, steals and his behaviour and level of intelligence is low, very far behind at school. The daughter has anger issues and on many occasions had thrown things, including kicking my stuff down the stairs and chucking my things outside. She is vile.
3. She has a major problem with me seeing my daughter, who does not live with me, so I see her when I can. My daughter does not like any of the family and does not want to be involved with them.
So my partner feels like I am running away every time I see my daughter... As you may have guessed, we don't live together, I have my own place and so does my partner.
So my issue is that it puts pressure on everyone, we have taken a break for a few weeks, and to be honest I've not missed any of the aggro, all I've missed is the company of this beautiful woman, going around her house fills me with dread sometimes, as its like arguing and moaning, they all slag off people and have a very negative attitude towards things.
So just not sure if it's worth carrying on with, and the lady thing I want is to drive my daughter away.
Cheers
Hi There,
I think you really know the answer to this, it doesn't sound like a great place to spend time, and you haven't missed it.
The answer is right there if you haven't missed it, then end it and move on
GTTS
I’ve got to agree with GTTS... you’ve answered your own question really.
Your daughter must be your priority and if she has a major problem with that, if calling at her house fills you with dread and your relationship with her kids is non existent... there are no positives to be honest.
In my opinion, you should move on.