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Excellent news ferfer - keep it about the children and hopefully it will get better.
Thanks Devo, my wide is the same, she has turned in to someone I hardly recognise. She too has made up accusations towards me, but she lies about things that can be easily proven. for example, she told CAFCASS that she has called the police out on me three times and had me arrested. She did not seem to think they would check on this, they did and put in the report that the police have no records of any call outs from her and my record is squeaky clean. She also said i refused to attend mediation, when in fact it was her. I mentioned in court that I submitted my mediation certificate with the C100 form, which they confirmed for me to her embarrassment.
I understand that based on the accusations she has made that the court and CAFCASS have to do the checks to be on the safe side, but it is just frustrating that I miss months with my girls because of lies. Since this, I have a lot more belief that they will allow me the contact I want and deserve.
Believe me, i know how much it hurts right now. But it will get better and you will see them. Do everything by the book and you will be all good.
Thanks, actd.
Hi Ferfer,
I have just read through your post and am delighted that your time together was wonderful - they missed you!
Always remember that your girls need you so focus on that and ignore all the other negatives and keep being the great Dad that you are 🙂
I think your kids will probably understand. Just explain to them your situation and then give them some gift so that they can think of your love and your sincerity.
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