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Me and my ex split around 3 months ago and we are living together due to finances etc. Due to her work schedule I look after the kids most evenings and get them ready every morning. Recently she has obviously been going out after work and isn't telling what time she'll be back, the kids want to see her in the evenings but it feels like she doesn't care, the last few nights she hasn't been getting home until really late. The fact she may be seeing someone else really cuts deep.
I'd like to buy her out of the mortgage, would I end up staying in the family home as I carry out 90% of the childcare at the moment?
Hi,
There is useful info here: buying them out of their share of the mortgage lets you carry on living in the property for as long as you want (provided you can make the repayments yourself).
https://www.habito.com/hub/article/your-guide-to-buying-out-a-partner-in-a-mortgage
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