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What extra pressures do you think the Christmas period puts on a relationship?
Gooner
One of the main reasons for the break down of a relationship is financial...so there's that, it costs a fortune!
Expectations need managed and down graded perhaps,
as always seems to end in anger and resentment on so much spent to end up miserable time.
I think a big one is where you spend christmas.
There are so many demands on you family time from parents and this can cause issues between couples as they both try to keep thier own folks happy.
GTTS
When I was married to my ex, I used to spend Christmas afternoon away from her (mind you, she was often out of her head on drink by then). Used to keep me happy at least.
These days, things are far more relaxed, with people popping in an out as they please.
observance of traditions unites family!
observance of traditions unites family!
Interesting - could you explain with a little more detail ?
Gooner
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