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im happy for you 🙂 its good to know that both of you can reason with each other.
Hi All,
So the return visit to the contact centre was cancelled on the Sunday, as she agreed to come over amd stay over till the bank holiday Monday and talk. Then take the children back.
So it was quite emotional and says she loves me and cares for me, but not in the same way anymore. I said could she come back and I can split the rooms out, and we could make a clean break at the end of the tenancy (Sept). In return I asked her to be open minded about how she feels, and I will put things in place to improve the feelings at home. To see if we can begin a healing process in that time. If her feelings don't change we move on. I promised to not put any pressure on her. If she does move on she said it is going to be very local.
She agreed, and Bank Holiday Monday we all had a family time before she headed back.
Today we organised a man and van to bring all her and the kids stuff back, and it's all been done. They should all be back tomorrow (Weds).
So at least now there is stability for everyone and things can be done cleanly.
...it’s bitter sweet for you, but you're in a much better place than you were when you first posted, hopefully you can both work it out.
It sounds like you are really making an effort to make this work, who knows perhaps you can rekindle the lost spark!
Wishing you all the best.
Hi All,
As of a few weeks ago we have been back together as a couple 🙂
We talked about a lot of things and sorted things out, and there have been no issues since. Everything is going well. Business as usual.
Thank you for all the support during the difficult times.
That’s great news, just happy that we were able to support you through it. Hopefully you will be even stronger, having worked through it. Well done!
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