[Solved] Not seen my baby daughter for 8 weeks 🙁

I'm waiting for the Ex to serve her statement on me! should be by 4pm 6th March so not long to wait!

Also appealing against costs which have been awarded to the EX

I've had 3 Court hearings now with 3 separate judges & all have made different orders regarding costs!!!

Starting to think that they are all incompetent & don't read the Court documents & statements............

But then again if I was being paid to sit on my backside & do nothing I'd probably do the same

What does cynical mean??? 🙂

Sounds like a right nightmare looks like I've got it all to come, good on you for sticking in there, I maintain Judge's lodgings all over the country and these people are so detached from reality it's untrue!

Have you had much contact with your daughter and how old is she?

Sounds like a right nightmare looks like I've got it all to come, good on you for sticking in there, I maintain Judge's lodgings all over the country and these people are so detached from reality it's untrue!

Makes me roll when I read the guest books in each building there comments on the types of flowers in the gardens and there aroma I can't help but think......MAN UP!

Have you had much contact with your daughter and how old is she?

I've never seen my daughter!

by the way things are progressing I won't see her until she's at least 6 months old (She's 90 days old today)

I never knew my Father so I don't want my Daughter to go through the same experience as I did (Yes my Mother was Mental)

At least we have evidence via Court papers etc to show are children in the future that we wanted to be a part of their lives

Jesus christ mate I am so sorry to here that you must be going through [censored]!!!!

I too haven't really had anything to do with my father but that was all him my mum was always sound but it all screwed me up until I was 30 my ex knows this thats why she's doing all this she keeps saying like father like son, it seems so common with these women to act this way what gets in to them and how can they justify their actions to their children when they are older?

Yes mate keep everything I bought a baby book and write her a letter every week noting my feelings not slagging mum off just how I feel so she knows when shes older how much I love her.

[quote=Yes mate keep everything I bought a baby book and write her a letter every week noting my feelings not slagging mum off just how I feel so she knows when shes older how much I love her.

I like that Idea!

What irritates me the most is that I have no hard feelings towards my Ex but she seems to be filled with hatred towards me, quite strange

I find it strange how these women want to have a child with you but when they become pregnant everything changes!!!

I read a report the other day that stated the biggest threat of abuse to a child from a single parent family is from the Mother.

But hey ho us Fathers who don't have contact are deemed a bigger threat.........

I've seen some pictures of my girl and she looks so ill its freaked me out, spoke to her mum and she told me my ex has been drink driving again after a family party also driving with no insurance with both girls in the car, I've reported her to the Police who were really understanding out of everyone I've spoke to so far.

I finally managed to get all the court applications filled out this week and they have been checked and I've paid the fees so at least the [censored] rolling now, I've worked the past 60 days 7 days a week to take my mind off things as it's so hard not seeing my girl on a weekend and I've about burn't myself out so really looking forward to this week off.

I bumped into an old school friend and turns out he is a solicitor so he's been giving me some awesome advice to representing myself I am actually really looking forward to it all now, I've invited my ex to attend a contact centre to see my daughter as a last ditch attempt I know she wont go for it but at least I can say I've tried so just waiting to get my forms back to serve the papers on my ex now.