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hi,
if you want to patch things up with your partner, then try your best. do something, before one of you just throws in the towel and does a runner. the person made a good suggestion about a trial separation.
yep i know the feeling about other women. its just a distraction.you have children so think twice. i have been there before. going through a rough patch. all the women at work are so nice and friendly. big smiles on their faces. very pretty. and you come home to some miserable cow who may not smile/greet you or look at you lol.
So an update, I have spoke with her regarding our relationship, she has been having an affair for the last 5 months she ended it with him 2 weeks ago. I have decided to walk away from the relationship and will see my kids as often as I can, I work 2 jobs will have to give one up tobeable to spend the time with my kids money will be tight but I will have to make do!
Thanks for the help gents
hi LLdad,
i hope it works out well for you and wish you all the best. trust is such a major issue. once thats broken, everything else goes out the window more or less.
Sorry to hear that LL... I think deep down you must have had an idea something was up, you first posted this thread 2 weeks ago, which is the same time that she was she was finishing the affair.
Breaking up is hard, but you won’t go wrong if you concentrate on the children and putting their needs first.
Best of luck
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