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[Solved] Moving forward

 
(@Devastateddad41)
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Hi Guys,
As most of you will know from previous posts on here, my wife and I agreed to split back in February and she left with the children nearly 2 months ago.
I deeply miss the life I had (the family life with daily contact with my kids). I miss the company. Is it wrong to look for companionship so soon after. I am not looking to go into a new relationship. It is far too early for that but need someone for company, chats, cuddles and to boost my ego again.

I am not needing [censored], although I wouldn't say no but it's more about having that special person in your life to share things with.

I am worried because divorce proceedings are about to start and I fear if I did meet someone, it could change the course and adultery could be thrown into the mix.

The pub is not the answer. I have tried that and although have met some great people, even been propositioned by a guy, the solution is never at the end of a pint glass. I have friends, so joining a gym will only add to my friends but I need more.

Is this a normal feeling so soon after a break up?

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Topic starter Posted : 06/08/2014 5:33 pm
(@mr-slim)
Famed Member Registered

[censored] yeah it's normal but as the saying goes you won't find it if you're looking, try and get yourself out and about maybe go away somewhere, take up a hobby or do a course on something, look after yourself, if all else fails get yourself on POF! hahahaha!

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Posted : 06/08/2014 5:35 pm
(@Devastateddad41)
Estimable Member Registered

haha, thanks buddy - always count on you for words of encouragement. Good Lad 🙂

I was drunk last night and decided to join POF when I got home. I set my profile up completely wrong and all I got was guys showing. Need to adjust that tonight when I get home lol

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Topic starter Posted : 06/08/2014 5:41 pm
(@dadmod4)
Illustrious Member

Hobbies are always a good idea - or try something you've always wanted to, but never quite dared/bothered/had the time.

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Posted : 07/08/2014 1:45 am
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