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this I have to say is tough as she knows best. and when bubs crys she always wants control
which to me is tough, but I the main question I ask how long do u mother a child ?? she crys mums there she wants feeding mums there ? shes annoyed mums there ??
plus when i get back from work it seems like i dont do n e thing ???
prob just ,me
I'm still mothering mine and they are 29 and 30!
It's difficult to comment as we don't know how old your baby is...if she's still breast/bottle fed then mother will be there to attend to her every need. Babies cannot tell their parents what they need or what is wrong and the only way we know is if they cry. Babies must be fed lots and need changing, they are usually teething or they may have colic which gives them a tummy ache. It's a full time job being a new mum!
If its your first baby then mum may be over protective and it might feel like you are being left out. Try and talk to her about how it makes you feel. Perhaps she doesn't realise that you are feeling isolated.
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