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After reading some post on here I have given it some though and realise that if i would like to get more attention from my partner then I might have to make more of an effort to "woo" her!
so I would very much like to hear about your ideas or things you might have tired to get your partners pulse racing... from tame to exotic i dont mind...
if it costs money i dont mind but money is a little tight so if on the cheaper side that would be cool
Money being tight is no worry to woo your partner!!! 🙂
You can cook her a meal with candlelight.
Take her for an evening walk (before the cold comes in!!!)
Cinema
As I am female, I don't think I should get into the pulse racing side of things!LOL! But the above is a beginning!! But basically anything that I nice and on the spur of the moment is different! 🙂
Hi There,
As said there are lots you can do to "woo" your partner and it doesn't have to cost a penny, simple things like a cup of tea in bed in the morning to a massage or foot rub (that isn't given just to get [censored]) doing a bit more around the house or just keeping your child entertained whilst she soaks in the bath you have run for her.
If you have a little spare cash little gifts that have meaning are better than expensive ones that don't.
GTTS
... or gifts that you make - even something simple.
Just be careful of the thoughts she may have…….
“why is he being nice all of a sudden” or “what is he hiding” or “what has he done wrong now” or…. “oh god, I may have to have a headache tonight”
Being serious though……you doing something simple as running her a bath and letting her having a soak while you cook her dinner. If you can’t cook or she wouldn’t trust you to cook you could cheat and get a friend/relative to help you in advance.
Or treat her to a nice meal somewhere…..it doesn’t have to be a fancy restaurant just as long as it isn’t your regular local….unless of course your local is the place she would love to go….just steer clear of the pool table, darts and dominoes league nights lol