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hi all this is me biggy
i had to make another acount up.
i just thought i now its a long way away but just so you all new the outcome
well we split up as you know i went to see her a hand full of times but nothing changed which lead us to not talking untill one day she phoned me and told me she had an appoinment at hospital on the friday .
friday come and she rang me to say that she had lost the baby at 9 weeks now afder me speaking to my family they said it sounds like she got rid of it but there was no evedence of this , we dont speak now iv had to change my number afder having threats of being stabbed and my sister being beaten up .
very sad to think she come to this level but iv moved on and a lot happier .
just want to say i appricate your lots help and when i was going throught the tuff you lads was there to help me.
things did get very violent at one point she punched me spat in my face and to which i had to restrane her.
agen i cant thank you all enuff for the support !!!!! i mean it
Thanks for dropping by to let us know how things are for you now.
as Yoda has said, perhaps its for the best....you are moving on and are a lot happier with your life now free from the violence, had you carried on with her who knows what might have happened and it would not have been a good time to bring a baby into it all.
Perhaps you'll drop by from time to time and share your experience with others who need it.
All the best.
i will do im droping on every other day see whats going off on here