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So......my girlfriend of 8 months has moved in and it was all fine,but she wants to be put in front of my kids from previous marriage,she wants me to pay less child support,and says that me putting them first is a problem....[censored]
Hi There,
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This doesn't sound like a goog basis for a relationship, You need to address this now by talking too her and explaining that although you won't reduce your time or the money you give, she still means a lot too you, if she can't understand that than you may have a tough time ahead.
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GTTS
Does your gf have kids? It sounds like she isn't aware of what being a parent means? You definitely need to talk about this now, or as GTTS says, you could be in for a rough ride. It's a difficult time when a new partner comes into the equation, there may be some boundaries you will need to set on all sides whilst putting your kids first.