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HI I it was recommended by cafcass for me to a domestic violence penetrators programme and tripple P programme for child arrangment order. Until then I can have only indirect contact. It was also recommended if me her where to resume relationship they will have to a risk assessment due to strangulation. Could we get back to together i I show change in dvpp programe.
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That's impossible to answer, if you do everything they ask of you, I would hope that you might be given a second chance, but they have to be really careful when there are children involved. I suggest you do everything asked of you, but don't have any expectations....do it because you are sorry and it's the right thing to do...if you show you have genuinely changed there may be a chance, but it will take time.
Do you and your ex both want to get back together?
Yes she does but she scared kids might get taken if her
The authorities must be confident that there is no risk to the children, and that includes witnessing any level of domestic violence. I think your best bet is to work with Social Services and take things one step at a time.
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