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Ok 3 weeks ago my fiance and girlfriend of over 10 years broke it off with me saying I couldn't change and she wanted out. I got stuck in a rut and wasn't giving her any affection. We also have a 3 year old daughter together. I don't know if she's with somebody else that's why the sudden change in her. I love her so much and wanted a chance to show her how much I loved her but she says it's too late. I want to get my family back and for my child to not come from a broken family. Any help would be great
Hi there
I’m so sorry to read the title of your thread... breaking up is so devastating, especially for the partner that doesn’t want it to happen.
I hope you’re getting some support from family or friends right now. It’s important that you look after yourself and try and keep your strength up. If you need some help with the way you’re feeling, you can ask your GP for help and if you’re feeling really down and need to speak to someone the Samaritans are really good listeners. Or an organisation called CALM who have a free confidential helpline that’s open between 5 and midnight
www.calmzone.net
0800 585858
I would give your partner some space right now, apart from trying to make arrangements to see your child. It might give her time to think things through properly.
Perhaps you could suggest couples counselling, here’s a link to Relate
www.relate.org.uk
All the best and keep talking.
Hi There,
As Mojo has said breaking up is never easy, no matter what the circumstance, but when yo don't want it to happen it's even worse.
I can't add much more than Mojo's advice above, but we are all hear for support and to talk to so keep talking and we will try and support you through this and out the other side.
GTTS
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