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Hi I’m 22 and currently have 3 kids with my current partner, over the past few months my feelings towards her have been disappearing. Everyday there is an argument whether I’m at work or at home. I’m constantly accused of cheating and receive about 10 phone calls a day while I’m at work. Recently she found out she was pregnant again after telling me that she was on contraception. I’ve always said that I didn’t want anymore kids after my third. I can never bring myself to split from her and leave the kids as there the only thing that keeps me going. I don’t know what to do and just feel like I am stuck or is it me that is the problem?
Hi and welcome on here.
I would suggest that you look at something like Relate - you can see them on your own at first, but the idea is to see if there is anything that you can do to resolve the issues in the first place, rather than it all pile up until it suddenly becomes too much.
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