Welcome to the DAD.Info forum: Important Information – open to read:
Our forum aims to provide support and guidance where it can, however we may not always have the answer. The forum is not moderated 24 hours a day, so If you – or someone you know – are being harmed or in immediate danger of being harmed, call the police on 999.
Alternatively, if you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123.
If you are worried about you or someone you know is at risk of harm, please click here: How we can help
Advice please. I cam being completely ignored by my 8 year old daughter and her mother. Example last week, I went to her new school for assembly and class activities, I met them near the school but they walked off not even saying hello, I walked behind them for the walk with no acknowledgement. When in the class her mother sat down with my daughter to do activities, and again I was completely ignored.
I get on well with my daughter when she is with me, but when her mother is around I get ignored. When I pick her up, she barely says hello and doesn't give me a cuddle, she starts talking in the car. When i drop her off she barely says goodbye.
Any advice? Part of me doesnt want to go to the school anymore as I am wasting leave at work, but I wont be bullied like that. I still think that persevering will benefit me in the long run.
To be honest it upsets me, but I know thats what my ex wants. She hates me and doesn't want me in their lives, but wants my money.
It is your ex's right not to have anything to do with you, so there is nothing you can do about that. It might be worth trying to come to an agreement about attending alternate school events so that you can alleviate this.
Welcome to the DAD.info forum.
We don’t like to set ‘rules’, but to make sure that you and the other dads are kept safe, we have some requests. When engaging with the forum, please be aware of the following:
- The forum is not moderated 24 hours per day.
- Many of the moderators do so on a voluntary basis. Whilst they may be able to provide some guidance, advice or support, they may not be able to deal with specifics.
- We are not an emergency crisis service so if you or someone else is in immediate danger, please call emergency services.
- If you are concerned about the safety of a child, please click here to find the support you can get for them (link to new page)
- If you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123. They are open 24 hours a day, 7 days per week.
We hope you find this forum a supportive environment and thank you for joining us.