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I'm really new too this kind of stuff. I'm really not an individual who looks for help, but I'm lost I'm currently living with the mother of my child we are not married we constantly have problems communicating and it results in a full blown argument. When we were in the hospital and she was asked who was the father she planly said that he wasn't present (I was fast asleep in the couch since I had been up all night taking care of the baby) so now I have no parental rights and my daughter does not have my last name either. I was too leave my baby momma since this relationship is toxic but I'm afraid she would not let me see my child if I do, since she's said it occasionally. I need help, I don't know what too do!
Hi There,
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If you leave your partner and she does go through with her threats of not letting you see your child then you would firstly need to try mediation, where a 3rd party would try and help the 2 of you communicate and work out a solution, if your ex won't attend or you can't work anything out then the mediator would sign the C100 form that you would need to use to apply to the courts for help, on this form I'm 99% certain you are able to specify that you require to have PR so that that can be dealt with while attending, If you do have to go through court and end up sending in the C100 then ensure you ask for an interim order to be considered at the 1st hearing so that you get too see your child as soon as possible as some judges won't make an interim order unless asked for in the application.
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We can support you through all of this and help with advice and guidence so if you do end up in court you can represent yourself without the need for solicitors.
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Have you considered some couples councelling to try and resolve the issues you have and save the relationship?
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GTTS
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