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My ex has never let me have a relationship with my eldest daughter, she has made lots of accusations, attacked me in front of my child, sent disgusting letters to my partners (at the time) threading to burn the house down, kill my dogs and pour battery acid down my throat. Even posted me a live bullet through the post, police say lack of evidence=no action taken then claims csa! Is there anything I can do about this?
You would have to first attempt mediation and then make an application to court for a Child Arrangement Order so that you can have a relationship with your child.
It's likely that it would go as far as court and you would be able to raise all these issues during the proceedings if you feel she poses a safeguarding risk to your child. I'm guessing she is the sort of mother that will make up allegations about you so it won't be easy but it's the only way you can get contact with your child if the mother refuses.
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