[Solved] Parental Responsibility...just a bit of paper...

Hi..Never married and, pre automatic PR ,i had to go through court to get such..i then returned to court to get a contact order and a preventative steps order to prohibit the mother from taking the children out of the country..The court found in my favour and restricted the movement of my children to the county ie devon,unless id given my consent,being notified at least 28 days in advance. Since then i have found the expensive pieces of paper i possess to be seemingly worthless..examples
..i have no say in my childrens religion.[.i believe they should find their ownfaith in time,not have a parents faith imposed upon them.].However they have been christenned behind my back ,and,now catholic,.I have no say in their education, they go to a catholic school.Ididnt get consulted as to choice of secondary school..i get school reports 5 months after the mother.Being non catholic,and a male,i note the discrimination from the all female catholic staff,,i have had to get solicitors to write and demand they send me reports.The local education authority label absent dads as second parents and dont even record dads details.They therefore will not consult with dads.
.Altho the court orders the mother to make the children available alternate weekends,half school hols etc and states and at other reasonable times,the mother refuses to let kids see me outside of the fixed defined periods.my kids think im at fault somewhere as im only allowed to see them on certain days,yet mum can see them all the time...not mums been so unreasonable a court has had to order her to ..I have to see both children together,regardless of age ,and i never get to see them seperately,and not as individuals...The mother defies the preventative steps order and takes the children out of the country and as long as she has stated when she will be back..as long as she brings them back on the date she stated then thats that..
so im asking what exactly is the point? All that money and its worthless as its unenforcable
.I am told the dates i am to have the children,to suit her work pattern..i have to use my holiday and take days of work unpaid...and 3 weeks in the summer a week at easter and a week at xmas..plus half terms..one 3rd of a year ,yet mother gets child benefit and working tax credits and wants £70 a week maintenance.....but hope is around the corner..Having messed work about so much so i could see my kids.I lose my job...Being on the dole gets me half hr legal consultation,4 hrs legal work free..no court costs,and if mother refuses mediation id get legal aid for family court..The form filling id do myself..its all on the net.. I wont be exhausted when i see my kids as i wont have been working all hours prior to seeing them,,i get my rent,council tax paid and £70 a week..equivilent to the take home pay 50 hrs at minimum wage wld get me.. I am going to get my teeth done free,my eyes tested and glasses.not have to pay any maintainance..Be free to have my kids anytime..., Then next summer im going to play on the beach every day with my kids,have a [censored] good rest ...im a dad and i deserve it....Then when ive gone to court for free on every point the mother has refused to even discuss with me,il find it wont make the slightest bit of difference.
..so i better get down the employment agencies n get a job that allows for absent dads to fulfil their responsibilities as they cater for mums...equality? oh well...thanx for reading ...i feel better for getting that outa my system....!