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in the end i couldnt just think it and not say it and why should we. I cut off after years of trying, it was to protect myself and it worked, i got my own life and let them get on with it. It is so much better now but not perfect. for instants we went out last week a rare event, and sd knew, then erly evening a text . Dad come and get me now ! Im not staying here any longer (row with her mum), he didnt go as he didnt have the car handy but sd still likes to control
That's my problem to be honest. (The comments.) Everyone is sick of them and I'm sick of the things that make me comment. Because my previous comments have not been welcomed (typically because they are not positive) I am no longer entitled to any thought or opinion of my own. Understandable, I guess.
As long as I am a quiet, yes man, then all is normal for a while. But as soon as I have an idea that is different to my partner's, then it's a row. It's all about control (for her.)
It's a week until xmas and I have no idea how I am going to hold out, as every minute of every day, I want to pack my things.But I don't want to leave and emotionally scar my son.....
Jesus, what a mess.
N.D.
N D it does get better honest. But I still have flash backs and he still waits hand and foot and it was still all my fault. Ignore them its great fun lol
Do things with your son, take him out, be clever dont make it obvious, plan ahead. walk away from any rows(says me who through a glass jug the other ay oopps)
DO NOT LEAVE !
Thought you might be interested to know that I'm still in the relationship. Managed to hang in there and things have improved. Hopefully for the long term. One day at a time is the key.....
N.D.
Thought you might be interested to know that I'm still in the relationship. Managed to hang in there and things have improved. Hopefully for the long term. One day at a time is the key.....
That's good news. What changed and how ? Did you discuss your issues with each other ? have you sought help from somewhere ?
Gooner
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