[Solved] It's Just Gone Too Far .........

Right.... Where to start. At the beginning i suppose,

well...... it all started 5 years ago when i met my boys mother, she got pregnant very quickly, within a few months of us sein each other. I was actually in the process of moving to New Zealand, had a job, a house and a visa ready to go. She fell pregnant and i decided to stay.
I think the main reason for this is because my dad left me when i was a baby, so i didnt want another kid to be without a dad i suppose :dry:

Anyway..... i tried to jump into a relationship head first with the mother to be of my child and i fell flat on my face, it was a no go... she was crazy... not the girl for me. Some people told me it was hormones bla bla bla... WHAT FOR F*CKING 5 YEARS. I dont think so.

I ended up ending the relationship after a couple more months of [censored]. but i said i would stick my her and the child for the forseable future.

Once my son was born, i decided once again to make another go of it, jumped in head first and guess what ?!? fell flat on my face again. but this time i stuck it out for 6 months of [censored]. i wasnt allowed to go and see my friends and when i did i got [censored] for 4/5 days accusing me off all sorts. NOT THE LIFE FOR ME.

Sooooooo............ I moved away to live with friends, about 45 miles away. far enough for her to to come and bother me. Everything was cool to start with. i was paying her £100 a week, i was seing my son twice a week, once during the week and one night at the weekend. Great :side:

But then the recession hit....... i lost my job, could onlyy find bits and bats of work and money was tight. i managed to get her about £30/£50 a week every week. but obviously she wasnt happy and wanted more.

So it began...... She stopped me from sein my son, wasnt there when i turned up. telling family and friends that i didnt want anything to do with my son so everyone (on her side) hated me.

Then i met someone. my son was 18 months old when i met my current partner. shes great with kids and i actually knew her from a while back... so we made a go of things. obviously my ex didnt like this either and had it in her head that now i have a girlfriend i wouldnt want to know my son anymore so she is going to stop me from sein him as of now so that he aint dissapointed when it does happen.... is it just me or is she really CRAZY ??? she even wanted to change his surname from mine so he would have no connection apart from blood 😡

Anyway..... 3 years down the line, im living the same girl and we also have a daughter together. and yet still my ex is causing me [censored]. Will it ever stop ???

This weekend i think she has taken her level or evilness to a all new level. i was away this weekend at a music festival and was unable to have my son. bearing in mind i do this probably once twice a year where i cant have him for the weekend as i dont go out that much. when i got back on sunday i rang my son to see if he had a good weekend .... whilst i was talking to him i could hear his mother in the background asking my son to ask me why i didnt want to have my son this weekend and that i didnt want to see him and didnt want to talk to him. she actually told my son that his dad didnt want to see him or talk to him.... this is unreal... its boarder line child cruelty. messing with his head at such a young age. obviously i reassured him. but still.........

in november i had my car stolen and i couldnt afford a new car so i bought a push bike and was doing 30 miles a day on it. cycling to work and back. but it was difficult to get to my son during the week. but i got the train to him and my ex would put my bike in her car and drop me off at home which was great until it started getting later and later ... 10pm/11pm

then she refused to take me home anymore so i decided enough was enough i was killing myself. so i decided to only have him at the weekends until i had some wheels with an engine. fair enough right ???

now its been 2 weeks and ive got to wait another two weeks before she will let me see him again all because i cant get him during the week.

she told i couldnt have him now for 3 weeks so ive made plans to go away this weekend, but yet she rings last minute after ive made plans to say ive got to have him and if i dont she tells him i dont want to see him... what do i do ? say ? ive made plans.

she is pure evil and using a child to get at his dad is the lowest of the low.

thanks for reading, i know its along one. comments very welcome, good or bad.

cheers

mike