Welcome to the DAD.Info forum: Important Information – open to read:
Our forum aims to provide support and guidance where it can, however we may not always have the answer. The forum is not moderated 24 hours a day, so If you – or someone you know – are being harmed or in immediate danger of being harmed, call the police on 999.
Alternatively, if you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123.
If you are worried about you or someone you know is at risk of harm, please click here: How we can help
How about a little discussion on the new Legal Aid reforms? Specifically the DV cases will still get free legal aid!
So as I’m sure many of the regulars here have noticed I’m occasionally quite opinionated (never used to be until I left my ex lol)…..so you’ll not be surprised to hear me writing what I’m about to write.
I was watching the news the other night and saw some guy on talking about the latest government cuts but specifically the Legal Aid reforms and the pulling of legal aid for family/domestic and contact cases.
Whilst this does not impact me directly - as I do not get legal aid – I heard one thing that really gets my back up…..they are still going to be offering legal aid to cases where Domestic Violence is “ALLEDGED”.
I know that there are a lot of Women and lets not forget Men out there who have or are really suffering DV from partners/ex partners….but does this little clause not open up the flood gates to the bitter ex’s to simply state DV when they know without it they’ll not get legal representation?
I hear and read of so many fathers (its mainly fathers here) that as soon as they’ve left and start struggling to get to see their kids they try the last option of legal action and then suddenly their ex’s come out with “he was abusive and violent” DV is then claimed and the fathers then get little/no contact with their kids until its disproven or the ex then “allows” contact to resume!
What will happen if/when its proven that DV never happened? Will the ex’s get sent the legal bill??
I for one also want to know why in such as my own case I proved my ex a liar on the DV claims (using the police reports etc…) why did she not get found in contempt of court? and why have I still had to pay out thousands of £££’s I don’t have and cannot afford???
If she got a speeding ticket they’d keep going until she paid it or imprison her (worst case!!!) would they not??!!
Welcome to the DAD.info forum.
We don’t like to set ‘rules’, but to make sure that you and the other dads are kept safe, we have some requests. When engaging with the forum, please be aware of the following:
- The forum is not moderated 24 hours per day.
- Many of the moderators do so on a voluntary basis. Whilst they may be able to provide some guidance, advice or support, they may not be able to deal with specifics.
- We are not an emergency crisis service so if you or someone else is in immediate danger, please call emergency services.
- If you are concerned about the safety of a child, please click here to find the support you can get for them (link to new page)
- If you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123. They are open 24 hours a day, 7 days per week.
We hope you find this forum a supportive environment and thank you for joining us.