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ok well i just wanted to know what can she do to me?
shes now thretening to take action against me.. shes being very unresnoble.. im really growing to hate her...
all i want is to sort my life out..
if someone can tell me what happens next.. and how do i make the choice to take the legal route cos i know once we start down this road theres no way back...
The best starting point is yoji's 'guide to representing yourself' at the top of the legal section.
Hi CBM
If you decide to go the legal route go it alone, as actd has said we will be here every step of the way for support and advice.
Darren
hi im still getting nowhere.. iv made contact with community legal advice.. its taking too long!
Keep sticking with it, there is no short cuts I'm afraid,
If your getting no where it might be worth starting the legal side.
Darren
This process will take time CBM. There is no quick fix i'm afraid.
If you are serious about getting access then you need to understand that it will take time - on the upside we are more than happy to support you through this process.
Did you go to see your GP ?
Gooner
ok i have just found out from community lega;l advice i am not legible.. i dont have money for a solicitor and im crying right now and dont know wot else to do..
Hi CBM,
You don't need to have money for a solicitor, you can represent yourself in court.
Get the ball rolling and get access back to your child.
Darren
i dont know what to suggest mate apart from hang in there sty strong fella
I agree with Darren and Shades. Doing something about contact (which means starting the legal process) will help a lot - at the moment you probably feel quite helpless - taking action is a good antidote.
and no matter what dont beat on yourself about it because you are trying mate
just got a text from her shes contacted her solicitor..
her text was..
i need an address for you to send a letter from my solicitor, to sort out contact for the baby..
now i have told her i cant use the address im staying at im staying on the couch and i dont want to mess up my frends council tax or wotever cos its not common knowledge im staying there
whats do i do? is her solicitor gettin involved ??
i need help.. this is killing me.. i am not coping well...
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