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There should be a law against this!
My mam did the same to my dad so I have her maiden name and no father on my cert!
I think it is wrong.
and its wrong for women to use there children to hurt fathers!
sorry to say but she sounds very toxic, best thing is go to the gp get help for your depression concentrate on trying to see your son, you might have to accept she cant be reasoned with directly and you may have to go through the authorities to get access to your child.
lets visualize just how long this whole process has taken up until right now.
It is 3801 days from the date i came here begging for help
10 years, 4 months, 26 days
124 months of pure [censored]
- 328,406,400 seconds
- 5,473,440 minutes
- 91,224 hours
- 3801 days
- 543 weeks
i cannot stop i got to just stay strong and move forward
still here - and now going through the child protection core meetings destroy my soul! when will this #### country do something about these sick #### child abusing women!
social services you people are utterly gutless pieces of #### who destroy fathers rights
does anyone actually read this?
has this process of writing what's happening help anyone?
as i just feel its a waste of time now - i used to feel like im doign something like im making a difference now i just feel im writing my last words before i die and im leaving behind my story for someone to write a book.. i dont feel like im living any life anymore i feel like im barely existing.. social service meetings bring me to the point where i want to just ######## scream and call them all useless ##### and to actually help me and if not help me help my son whos the real victim in all this
but everyone in the social services system just wants to sit on the fence and play devils advocate noone wants to look into the actual cause of the issue and help by addressing them for what they are...
il never be able to sleep at night knowing my son is out there just wondering what the #### is going on - and in some way feeling like i failed him all because his evil mother has turned him against me...
i desperately need some help.. some strength and a way to make this all go away... as i just cant bear the pain i feel right now..
10 ####### years of pure [censored]...
@crazybabymother hi sorry to hear what you have been going through. you mentioned you have been taking part in child protection meetings, how has that been going?
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