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Just wondered if anyone could help me. I am currently going through a situation with my ex partner because i have a child with her i can not get on with my life i have been seeing my son for a while now i recently had a situation where i had stopped seeing him because of her interfering in my life i have a new partner we have been together for almost a year we are getting on very we are very happy together we would like to start a family together but because I've had problems with her yet again it's proving difficult now she's trying to cause problems through the CSA (Child Support Agency) i don't know what do im not seeing my son because of it this is the second time that this has happen frankly i feel like giving up because all it seems to cause is chaos. so if anyone could kindly give me any advice on what i can do please advice
Many Thanks
Hi there
I don't really understand what you are asking to be honest... having a child with your ex can't be undone and even if you've stopped having contact with the child you will still be responsible for supporting him or her financially.
If your ex decides to go through the CSA theres very little you can do about that, except to try and avoid this by seeing if you can reach an agreement with her.
Hi Antcom,
I think the right thing for you to do is be a good dad for your son, regardless of whether you get on with his mother or not, and whether you want to start another family with someone else. Your son is your responsibility and you should not just walk away.
Do the right thing.
O
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