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[Solved] She wants another kid


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Hi all abit of feed back please

I'm in newish relationship since march of this year

I have just turned 40 she is 45
she has four kids 22, 20 17 10.

She keep's on saying the M word to me.
And my eye's role. and i quickly change the subject

And then she ask's " if i want another kid".
I reply "will yes but i'm not going to put any pressure on it
If it happens it happens".

I have a six year old daughter that i see every other weekend.

[censored] is good, don't get me wrong.
But every night !!!

Yesterday she walk's in after doing the shopping and say's " i have bought you something"
Guess what it is ?
A pack of Wellman conception pills for men.
it helps to increase the life time of the little men and they it does something else.

Do you think she is asking to much?
I do love her and i guess at our age you want to settle down with someone you get along with.
Any other blokes in the same situation as me?

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 ak57
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Sorry bit thick but what’s the m word

I think her biological clock is near the end and she’s feeling maternal and wants to try before its to late, if its not to late already. she may find it difficult to conceive and there are very high risks of abnormalities the older you get. You need to seriously think about this. Having a baby now she will be 60 when the child is 15 !! And you will be 55. I personally would want to enjoy my later years and be able to go on holidays, weekends away, not go back to sleepless nights and teenage tantrums. but this is my view

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I think the M word is ....marriage! :woohoo:

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😆 😆 😆 Oh Bz you do make me laugh!

[censored] everynight is cool when your in your 20s and even in your 30s....but it becomes a bit jaded when your half way through your 40s!
Just my opinion! 😉

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 ak57
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[censored] yawn whats that !!! m word lol soz Im stupid

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tooooo tired lol (think we are hyjacking someones post )

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.....Probably in your partners mind, marriage and a baby would cement your relationship, its the biggest commitment anyone can make to another person. Her body clock is ticking as ak says, and she is older than you which will make her feel vulnerable. You've only been together for 6 months, so its very early days... and you have 5 children between you. My advice is just take your time, and make very sure that whatever you decice to do, its what you really want.

Sorry we went off course, but [censored] everynight just had to be commented on!...I have a distant memory of such things! 😆

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.....I have a distant memory of such things! 😆

Ah, so you're still young enough that your memory isn't failing you 😀

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...I do Brain Training on my DS regularly and I have the brain age of a 21 year old!! I'm saying nothing about the body! :woohoo:

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Thanks for the kind support.
I think those wellmen conception pills are working :woohoo:

I guess at the end of the day if it happens it happens.

Both the M word And The B word.

Thanks everyone

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