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[Solved] Selective Hearing or Bad Hearing


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(@zaden)
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Hi all
Wondering if I have an issue here or it is just the norm. Planning to take him to the doc just in case though.
My 5.5 yr son seems to have bad or maybe selective hearing. I can be standing within a metre away from him and his responses is just "huh", with a funny look of did not hear you and I find myself having to constantly up the volume for him to hear. Yet every once in a while I will say "crisp", "chocolate", or other tempt child item and he hears us.......

Is this just a normal phase to wind up the parents or could it be more medical.......

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It's a normal phase and they do grow out of it..........for a few years until they hit their teens and it all starts over again 😀

You'll find that he does hear you but doesn't listen - the two things are not the same.

Of course, If you are really worried take him to the doctors and get his ears tested.

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Hi

I think it would be wise to get his hearing checked out by the doctor. He may have a condition known as 'glue ear' which is very common in childhood but he won't necessarily have any symptoms. It is more common in boys due to their eustachian tubes in the middle ear being shorter and more horizontal, making it easier for them to be blocked.

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Thanks for the replies guys. To be on the safe side will get him checked out, but understand what you Babelfish 🙂

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Thought I would just update you all. Took the boy to the doctors and he told me his ears look very healthy.
Additionally the doc said that normally when he comes across hearing issues in school age children, it is normally instigated by a teacher/school rather than the parent.
Now though, call it mind over matter or whatever else, but I do not seem to notice it as much anymore or am I now just relaxed over the whole matter. His teachers have never raised it as a concern and always say that he pays attention and follows instruction well.
So there you go for anyone else in the same situation....... 🙂

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Thanks for the update. Glad there is no physical problem. It's great that you no longer seem to notice it as much now, as you say you're either more relaxed or it isn't happening so much. If his teachers haven't raised any concerns then it's probably just a phase he's gone through for your benefit!

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