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Apparently she's found god at a happy clapper church and she's bringing the vicar/pastor or what ever you call them cult leaders with her to the final hearing as a MF [censored]? the court have ok'd this as well I honestly thought I was tripping out in court, she's been taking my Girls down there too which I'm not happy about I don't trust anyone involved in the Church :/
Oh yes MOJO I'm streets ahead feels good extremely proud of myself I played an absolute blinder today I think the ex has realised she hasn't a leg to stand on, I do actually feel really sorry for her it's so sad to see her in such a state she's really clutching at straws I am concerned she's been sucked in to some sort of happy clapper cult though I think she's met them through AA who are also a secret cult who have mugged the whole world it a little disturbing her sisters been telling me all about it today :/
Hallelujah!
I'm sure the church will be a passing phase Slim. It's quite common for people in AA to become involved with them......
It can't be nice to see her in that state but it's great that things are going your way and the hearing is set before Xmas,
Wishing you and your girls all the best 🙂
I dont think this will work in her favour tbh... It just demonstrates her vulnerability.
It's a credit to you that even after all she has put you through you can show compassion and concern for her. ...you're a good bloke Slim!
DONT feel sorry for her, EVER!
Look what she put you through.
I can't help it I do feel sorry for her she's a shadow of her former self it's sad to see, we were such good friends at one stage I spent the best 4 years of my life as friends with her bringing up her first daughter, she used to be so kind and compassionate she wouldn't say boo to a goose, we used to DJ together she bailed me out when I was homeless and put food on the table when she was struggling herself and I had no one.
I've realised today she is gone that person is dead the drink has took her soul I'm just in this for my two beautiful girls they deserve so much better and today had confirmed I'm on the right track.
Yes she has put me through the worst 2 years of my life and I have been driven to the point of suicide but this whole process has made me a better person I've kicked a 20 year cannabis habit which got way out of hand it pushed me to crack america and ibiza dj'ing and representing myself in court has taught me so much even this parenting course has taught me to be an even better parent.
I do respect my ex as she went ahead with her first pregnancy knowing that the doctors said she will be born will severe disabilities and there was 85% chance she will be completely screw balled for life, everyone tried to make her have an abortion and her dad wanted her to die at birth as he didn't want a disabled child as it happens the little beaut turned out 85% ok and she just seems a normal little girl to me she feels just as much a daughter as my own.
Really proud of you gives hope to us all
For the first time in my life I'm really proud of myself it feels really good almost like when I made the independent news paper about my rise to stardom in DJ'ing lol
That's especially awesome that you might get to see your step-daughter - that looked like a distant dream a few months ago - what lucky girls you have 🙂
I agree with the above - don't feel sorry for your ex, she may be a shadow of her former self, but that was entirely her doing - if she'd have co-operated reasonably in the first place, she'd be in a better place too. She has used your daughter and step-daughter as pawns, and for that she deserves no pity at all.
I'm soft a s**t mate always have been lol
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